Black Men in America
The Washington Post has an article called, “Poll Reveals a Contradictory Portrait Shaded With Promise and Doubt.” In this story, Steven Homes and Richard Morn discuss a poll in which black men talk about their views on each other and racism. Interestingly, they reserve their harshest criticism for each other.
Six in 10 black men said their collective problems owe more to what they have failed to do themselves rather than “what white people have done to blacks.” At the same time, half reported they have been treated unfairly by the police, and a clear majority [55%] said the economic system is stacked against them.
More than half said they place a high value on marriage — compared with 39 percent of black women — and six in 10 said they strongly value having children. Yet at least 38 percent of all black fathers in the survey are not living with at least one of their young children, and a third of all never-married black men have a child. Six in 10 said that black men disrespect black women.
Three in four said they value being successful in a career, more than either white men or black women. Yet majorities also said that black men put too little emphasis on education and too much emphasis on sports and sex.
Eight in 10 said they are satisfied with their lives, and six in 10 reported that it is a “good time” to be a black man in the United States. But six in 10 also reported they often are the targets of racial slights or insults, two-thirds said they believe the courts are more likely to convict black men than whites, and a quarter reported they have been physically threatened or attacked because they are black.
As a former high school coach and school teacher, I have seen many black young men come through the school doors full of potential and talent. Of these a good many become successful and yet so many of them developed attitudes against education as being too white. Many young black men rather than spend time around their parents, they hang around their older peers and develop a disdain for women and hard work. And then so many then blame their failures on ‘white society,’ they were ‘discriminated against.’ Come on!
So lets look at how I handled discrimination. In 1979 I was hired by a municipality but could not start work for three months because the man I was replacing was a black man. They had to jump throw lots of hoops for me to officially begin work. I guess I could have been bitter about the delay, but I wasn’t.
About 15 years ago, after conducting exhaustive research on a new business, I was turned down any help by the Small Business Administration because I was ‘white.’ They had both time and money for anyone who was black. I guess I could have used this setback as an excuse to fail, but I didn’t. You make your tracks, and I made mine.
I could go on and on. Almost everyone I know has been discriminated in one way or another. Everyone has to make a personal decision whether or not to make it an issue. And that is what our teachers need to teach their students: reasons for success rather than failure.
I will agree with them on it being a good time to be a black man in America. Only in the United States can a man take himself from nothing to something. All it takes is commitment and hard work.
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